tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10837248.post114572818838764872..comments2024-01-24T02:58:22.937-08:00Comments on Foolish Mutterings: What is Wrong with Me?aphronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02203237871375124185noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10837248.post-1146594947607327872006-05-02T11:35:00.000-07:002006-05-02T11:35:00.000-07:00Ditto what april said. There is nothing wrong wit...Ditto what april said. There is nothing wrong with fantasy. It is when things are so problematic that the desire to ACT becomes a "force that can not be denied" that you have to worry.The Hopeless Flirthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08834703619817581661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10837248.post-1146236299223170072006-04-28T07:58:00.000-07:002006-04-28T07:58:00.000-07:00I think that we fantasize about things b/c of what...I think that we fantasize about things b/c of what we are missing in our own lives. Doesn't mean we have to act on them...but they do fulfill a part of us that can be empty at times.Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15630789316862715528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10837248.post-1146157087409522042006-04-27T09:58:00.000-07:002006-04-27T09:58:00.000-07:00I think you're quite normal in those desires. We ...I think you're quite normal in those desires. We all seem to have them...<BR/><BR/>The real question is, which is greater, your love for your family or the desires. Seems that you've come to the conclusion that the love for your family is priority.Anteroshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06078380154611129333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10837248.post-1145911060936117202006-04-24T13:37:00.000-07:002006-04-24T13:37:00.000-07:00Wanting/needing above refers to sex. I don't real...Wanting/needing above refers to sex. I don't really feel the need to view porn or read sex sits.aphronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02203237871375124185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10837248.post-1145910997105777702006-04-24T13:36:00.000-07:002006-04-24T13:36:00.000-07:00Reading a lot? I don't know. I read some, so tha...Reading a lot? I don't know. I read some, so that may be too much. When does something become a problem? How does one know, when one is in denial? I'll admit to going through phases of wanting/needing it quite a bit, and then things cool down. I'd say there may be a correlation to how Sybil and I are doing at the time. Of late, things are improving, but she is past the week before her period. During that roller coaster period (no pun intended), I may look at these sites more. Usually I read what is on my blog roll and some more political-type sites.<BR/><BR/>If you are alluding to a porn addiction, I've considered it. While it has a fascination, I don't think I have a problem with it. As I explore this, I think it is kind of morbid curiosity? I dunno.aphronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02203237871375124185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10837248.post-1145910457120415652006-04-24T13:27:00.000-07:002006-04-24T13:27:00.000-07:00Are you reading lots of sex blogs, looking at porn...Are you reading lots of sex blogs, looking at porn, etc? I know from my past experience, that really ramped up my mind into constant overdrive, which I just did not need 24/7.<BR/><BR/>Of course, that doesn't mean I NEVER think about some of that stuff now...FTNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00863217400079842687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10837248.post-1145860155600682422006-04-23T23:29:00.000-07:002006-04-23T23:29:00.000-07:00I think it's pretty normal to have these thoughts....I think it's pretty normal to have these thoughts.....Thoughts of things your wife want do....Heck I hope it's normal....I have my own little thoughts....LOL<BR/><BR/>Have a great day!!!Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01763731199223127543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10837248.post-1145838061108417292006-04-23T17:21:00.000-07:002006-04-23T17:21:00.000-07:00Is that all it is? It seems to be fairly strong.Is that all it is? It seems to be fairly strong.aphronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02203237871375124185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10837248.post-1145804765851711832006-04-23T08:06:00.000-07:002006-04-23T08:06:00.000-07:00I think that *everyone* has these thoughts, at lea...I think that *everyone* has these thoughts, at least occasionally, if they have an active fantasy life in their head. It's human nature!So Gone Over Youhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12490905348807226807noreply@blogger.com