I'll just leave this right here. As soon as last night, I was called "A$#hole". In this case, I will own that I did do something wrong. In a moment of weakness, I was not honest with Sybil. In my weakness I did not confront her with a demeaning comment she said to me in front of others. I'll take 50% of the blame. In my mind there is no point in confronting her with stuff because even on the very, very rare occasion I get her to somehow apologize, the apology is hollow.
This is my conundrum: I do not feel that I can (safely?) confront Sybil with things that she does. I have to wade through a river of crap with a rare reward. This leaves me with the choice of having a closed relationship with my wife or constantly fighting battles.
There is a third option...Sybil keeps talking divorce. Now, my mind is made up. I will not be the one to divorce. Maybe that is stubborn pride, but she will have to be the one to make that decision.
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I have been married for over 3 years.
Every day is not a good.
But I will bite my tongue just to make sure I don't utter bad words towards the hubby in the presence of others. Now, in private is another thing.
I get pissed. I do mad. But I don't do name calling.
I can do it to strangers. But not to someone whom I will share a room everyday anyway.
P.S. I think I will be flooding your blog today. Ha!
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